Save the Marriage System Review showcases Dr. Lee Baucom’s secret method of keeping a relationship afloat through rough times.
Basically, I am referring to a 159 page long digital guide that claims to safeguard your marriage from the dangers of divorce.
The title of the guide itself is self explanatory to its usage.
Save the Marriage System is a systematic guide that teaches you how to maintain a lifelong relationship by bypassing rough patches with utmost ease.
Interestingly, I found (much to my amazement) that this relationship guide is a big hit among both the young and old couple alike. When I interviewed some of them, they stated that this guide has the ability to rekindle even the coldest relationship.
This came as a surprise to me. So, I decided to delve deep to find out why this dating guide is ‘clicking well’ with married couples.
Save the Marriage System Review
Name of the Guide – Save the Marriage
Name of the Author – Dr. Lee Baucom
Type of Guide – Dating/Relationship Guide
Kind of Product – eBook and Audio Guide
Unique Selling Point of this Relationship Guide – Over 85,000 Copies Sold
User Rating – 4.87 Out of 5 Stars
My Rating – 4.6 Out of 5 Stars
Save the Marriage Review Contains the Following:
1. What is this Relationship Guide all About?
2. What are the Contents of this Dating Guide?
3. Detailed Course Material of Save My Marriage System
4. What is the Ongoing Controversy on Save My Marriage System?
5. The Positives
6. The Negatives
7. Is it Really Important to Save Your Marriage?
8. What is the Effect of Abuse Post Marriage on the Relationship of Couples?
9. What are the Signs that Indicate that Your Marriage can be Saved?
10. When to Stop Trying to Save Your Marriage?
11. What is My Take on this Relationship Guide?
What is this Relationship Guide all About?
Save the Marriage System is a set of audio and written program that caters to couples in distress. In case you belong to the category of couples that are stricken with the horror of divorce then, you can make use of this system to avail instant relief.
The language of this course is simple to understand. The author too is an experienced marriage counselor. He has been married for the past 22 years and has two kids. So basically, he has had a successful marriage.
Regardless of your age, gender, number of married years and nature of marital problem, the Save Your Marriage System by Dr. Lee Baucom is capable of providing instant relief.
A Brief Introduction on Dr. Baucom:
Dr. Baucom is a relationship coach and an expert marriage counselor. In his lifetime, he has helped countless couples to get their married life back on track. The strategies and techniques mentioned in the ‘Save Your Marriage Guide’ are a sum-total of Dr. Baucom’s countless years of experience in resolving relationship issues between couples.
What does it Include?
This is a digital product that is inclusive of 4 main module, 2 audio books and 2 bonus PDF’s. The main program is explained via the mechanism of the eBook that is 159 pages in length.
The Main Modules:
Module – 1: A comprehensive electronic report that explains what you need to avoid doing when your partner is all set to leave your side.
Module -2: A report (quick-start) that teaches you ways and means of saving your marriage.
Module -3: A similar report for saving your marriage but containing dirty secrets.
Module – 4: The main eBook that contains 159 pages.
The 4 Bonuses:
>>> An MP3 audio CD that teaches you how to cope with midlife crisis.
>>> Another MP3 audio CD that teaches the art of recovering from a broken marriage.
>>> An eBook that is written by Jennifer and Paul Thibeault and titled, ‘Change of Heart’.
>>> A digital report that teaches you how to fight fairly with your partner.
Course Material of Save The Marriage System
In case you are having trouble sustaining your marriage, opt for this digital book on relationship development. Nonetheless, if you are in an abusive relationship then, this guide may not be best suited for your needs.
Ideally, if your spouse is not staying with you or behaving like a dorm-mate then, opt for this guide. Likewise, if your communication has ceased or your marriage is all set for divorce, do give this method a fair trial.
Even before delving into the details of this course, it is vital to note that this guide contains 17 chapters. Each chapter delves into the details of a relationship based ‘problem-solution’ methodology.
The First Lesson:
In the first module, you are taught to avoid the top five things when your spouse is not certain whether she aspires for a divorce or not. These strategies need to be adopted only if your partner has cited his/her intent for a divorce.
When you follow the techniques taught to you by Dr. Baucom, your chances of saving your marriage are doubled. In fact, you stop the damage that has already been done to your relationship.
The Second Lesson:
In the second module, you are provided with a comprehensive map that shall teach you how to repair your marriage. This map shall give you the directions that you need to follow in order to repair your damaged relationship.
Basically, you are taught advanced intimacy techniques to help patch up your damaged marriage. Effort is also made to teach you certain psychological techniques to mend your marriage.
The Third Lesson:
This chapter is a culmination of Dr. Baucom’s years of counseling. He explains the methods that work in saving your marriage and those that do not. Based on your situation, Dr. Baucom offers a customized solution to safeguard your marriage.
The lesson is full of exercises that help develop a fulfilling relationship. There are a lot of therapy session too that have been included in this module. These techniques have been tried and tested by Dr. Baucom himself and are based on years of experience.
The Fourth Lesson:
The last and final lesson is based on re-connecting with your spouse. Over here, an effort is made to ensure that you are made capable of re-attaching emotionally as well as physically with your estranged partner.
The tips, strategies and techniques mentioned in this module are the same that Dr. Baucom teaches his clients during his ‘one-on-one’ sessions.
What is the Ongoing Controversy on Save the Marriage System:
Dr. Lee is of the firm opinion that marriages can easily be saved if you invest time into them. By implementing effective communication techniques, you are able to resolve even the most complicated issues with utmost ease.
Dr. Baucom has also stated that most marriage counseling sessions are a sheer waste of time. They are expensive and time taking yet they do not yield positive results. This is because such counseling sessions are unable to target the root cause of your relationship issue.
According to the author, only 20% of all marriages survive complications. Hence, he has mentioned only those strategies that actually yield results.
The Advantages:
This is what I found really good about this program:
1) Simple and Easy to Understand
This book is written in an ‘easy to comprehend’ language. Difficult and complex strategies to save marriages have been explained in the simplest possible manner. Even a layman with no prior knowledge in relationship psychology, can understand its contents.
2) The Expertise Factor
This guide has been compiled by an expert relationship counselor. Dr. Baucom has a PHD in the field of relationship and marriage counseling. He has also helped hundreds of thousands of couples in resolving their relationship based issues.
In case you go through the relationship counseling guides, you would find that Dr. Lee is the most qualified of all authors. Hence, his 20 years of experience in the field of marriage counseling is completely trustworthy in nature.
3) Advanced Strategies
The strategies mentioned in this guide are advanced in nature. Basically, Dr. Lee has made use of advanced psychological techniques in his guide to help relationships work. Such techniques are not usually seen in other eBooks or even personalized counseling sessions.
4) Cost Effective Technique
As compared to spending $100 an hour on marriage counseling sessions, this online dating method by Dr. Lee Baucom is very cheap. It just costs you $47.
5) Lots of Free Bonuses
When you place an order for this relationship guide, Dr. Baucom allows you to enjoy several bonus offers as well. These are easily worth $300 but are absolutely free with the guide.
6) Money Back Guarantee
This relationship guide is backed by a full refund guarantee for a period of 2 months. In case you are not completely satisfied with the content, you can always exercise this right.
7) Positive User Feedback
When I searched for negative feedback on the guide, I could find none. This simply goes on to state that this system actually works in real life.
The Negatives:
These are the points that made me think twice:
1) Too Cumbersome for Some
Yes, you read it correctly! This method is way too cumbersome for those individuals who like to have it the easy way. You have to read all the 159 pages to derive the benefit that this guide provides.
2) It Takes Time
You need to spend some time learning the strategies and then implementing them in practical scenario. Basically, you need to be motivated from within to follow this through.
3) Lack of Elaborate Teaching Aids
This digital guide lacks video tutorials. In fact, you do not have the option of getting hold of a hard copy version of this guide.
Is it Really Important to Save Your Marriage?
This is a debatable topic. While most couples and their immediate family and friends would agree that saving a marriage is vital but not everyone thinks so. It all depends on the circumstances and the situation the estranged couple is currently facing.
If you are not at all cordial with each other and there is nothing in common, there is no point in hanging onto a marriage. On the other hand, if you have certain issues that can be resolved whereas in most other cases you are cordial, your marriage is definitely worth saving.
While it is a blessing to get married to the person of your choice, the fact remains that things do not always work out the way you wanted them to. So, there are times when you need to let go and move on with life. While seeking a divorce, you should realize that it is better than living in a highly toxic relationship.
What is the Effect of Abuse Post Marriage on the Relationships of Married Couples?
Most marriages never work because of physical abuse involved. When this does not stop, it is time to move on with life. Moreover, infidelity as well as lack of compatibility in simple issues may also be a major cause for marriages splitting apart.
It is important that both physical as well as mental abuse be dealt with very carefully. You need to ensure that you stop this immediately. Never wait for too long, else you shall be mentally scarred forever.
Listening to your gut is vital while taking such a firm decision. Make sure that you do pay a visit to a marriage consultant/councilor, so as to figure out whether the marriage can be sustained or not.
What are the Signs that Indicate that Your Marriage can be Saved?
Here are a few tell-tale signs that your marriage can indeed be saved:
The Perfectionist Trap:
Once you realize that you cannot have the perfect spouse, you automatically begin to value your marriage. This is when you automatically begin to change the way you think and behave. Your transformation is witnessed in the form of your everyday actions and can save your marriage.
The Feel Good Factor:
Sometimes, it becomes vital that you make your partner feel good. This in turn can be performed by simple acts such as a vacation or dining in a nice restaurant. If your spouse is making an effort in this direction, things are well.
Infidelity:
Yes, this is not at all acceptable in a marriage. Nonetheless, if your spouse acknowledges this fact and is repentant, forgiveness is what you need to opt for.
The Family Bonding:
When you start to accept that your family is above all then, your marriage is all set to be saved. In simpler words, when you begin to realize the importance of your family, you forget your trivial (personal) issues.
Just the Two of You:
If your spouse is agreeing to take you out on dates despite you both having been in a marriage for long, saving a relationship is on the cards. So, dating is vital even though you may have been in marriage for years.
Communication:
It is important that you speak to each other often. Regardless of how many years have passed, it is important that you keep your communication channel open.
If you both are sharing your thoughts on a regular basis, it is possible that your marriage is capable of being saved. All you need to do is communicate further and resolve your personal issues via healthy conversation.
Team Spirit:
When you begin to consider yourself as a team and not as a separate entity, you both shall benefit greatly. If you think and work as a team, your personal differences (that are rattling your marriage) can be easily resolved.
When to Stop Trying to Save Your Marriage?
Here is when your trying really hard to save your marriage is not really going to work in your favor:
Tough to Carry Forward a Conversation:
When you both are simply unable to carry forward a conversation, the time has come when you reconsider your marriage. Communication needs to be carried forward in order to know your thoughts.
When you cannot discuss even simple issues, it is evident that you cannot carry on with your current relationship. For example, if you put forth a query and get no response from the other end (your partner), it is as good as banging your head against the wall.
The Pouncing Factor:
When you tend to pounce on each other, regardless of the gravity of the situation, your marriage has reached a breaking point. Even when your conversation is straightforward and to the point, your partner might simply deviate from the topic and start accusing you of things you never committed.
Such situations are catastrophic for the marriage and the accusation factor plays a major role in ruining any chance of reconciliation. Over here, negativity reigns supreme and there is no scope for a positive conversation.
Being Tight Lipped:
If any one of the partner has come from a violent household, he/she is habitual of avoiding situations. In simpler words, you shall tend to keep ‘mum’ even though the matter is of grave concern.
This tight-lipped attitude may seem harmless at first but as time progress, it becomes the root cause behind most marriages breaking up. So, always voice your opinion when the need arises.
The Usual Habits:
As marriage progresses, the same habits of your spouse that you initially tolerated become intolerable. This in turn implies that you need to communicate with your partner about them.
If despite communication, these habits continue, you need to understand that your spouse is no longer interested in paying heed to you. This is when trying to keep the marriage alive is a futile attempt.
Abusive Behavior:
Sometimes, verbal abuse becomes a way of life amidst couples. Over here, you continue to verbally abuse your partner without once realizing the damage you are doing to your marriage.
It has often been noticed that verbal abuse is prevalent in families wherein either couple has already been through an abusive childhood. For them, verbal abuse is a way of life and they continue making use of it in an unabashed manner.
No Longer a Stress Buster:
There was a time when you used to look up to your spouse for help when you were stressed. When this does not happen and you seek external assistance to de-stress your mind, the relationship is in doldrums.
You often wonder whether it was the right decision to get married in the first place. Your confidence in your partner dies and there is hardly any information being passed from one end to another. This is yet another classic example of ‘lack of effective communication between two partners’.
The Single Entity Crisis:
When you start to take both personal as well as financial decisions as a single entity, your marriage is on the verge of impending doom. Decisions in a healthy marriage need to be taken as a team. So, which this stops, it is time to end the marriage. After all, you have started to think like a ‘bachelor’ or a ‘spinster’ again.
No Contact Whatsoever:
When ‘physical’ as well as ‘eye contact’ becomes a history, your marriage does not have any place left in the history books. This is yet another way of assessing whether it is worth continuing (with your partner) or not. No physical contact for weeks or months is a tell-tale sign of a disastrous marriage.
Change in Personality:
If, after your marriage, your nature tends to change for the worse, your marriage is indeed the cause for your ruin. This is when you need to try and end it for your own good.
My Take on this Relationship Guide
The dating book by Dr. Lee Baucom has been accepted worldwide as a successful mechanism to ‘patch-up’ a punctured (rough) marriage. This is one of the main reasons why this dating guide has been around the internet for such a long time period.
I particularly liked the advanced psychological strategies mentioned in this guide to keep the marriage afloat. I also liked the fact that Dr. Lee has extended a 60 day full money back guarantee on his relationship guide. This simply reiterates the confidence of the author on his product.
Then again, this digital book is a direct resultant of the experience that Dr. Baucom has gathered over a period of 20 years (working as a relationship coach).
He shares the same with thousands of his super-satisfied clients. Only the tried and tested strategies (that work in a practical scenario) have been incorporated in this guide. Any wasteful stuff has been omitted for good!
I also find the bonus offers to be rather generous in nature. I bet they are worth at least $300 or more (if bought separately). Overall, I liked the concept and the content of this relationship guide.
If I were to be asked to comment on this dating method by Dr. Lee Baucom then, I would certainly give it a ‘Thumb-Up!’